There was no system of dowry. Among the eight types of marriage,
brahma marriage holds a supreme position.
Daiva Marriage
In this type of marriage, the girl's family waits for a particular
time, to get her married. If they do not find a suitable groom for
their daughter, then they would marry her off to places, where
sacrifices are conducted. In this case, the girl is generally
married to a priest, who conducts sacrifices. According to the
sastras, Daiva marriage is considered inferior to Brahma marriage,
because it is considered degrading for the womanhood.
Arsha Marriage
Arsha marriage is the one, wherein the girl is married to the
sages or rishis. References from dharmasastras tell us that in
arsha marriage, the bride is given in exchange of two cows,
received from the groom. The girl is generally married to an old
sage. The cows, which were taken in exchange of the bride, shows
that even the groom do not have any remarkable qualities.
According to sastras, noble marriages had no monetary or business
transactions. Therefore, these kind of marriages were not
considered noble.
Prajapatya Marriage
Monetary transactions and Kanyadaan are not parts of Prajapatya
marriage, unlike the Brahma marriage, where these two forms an
important and basic part. Unlike the Brahma marriage, here, the
bride's father goes in search for a groom for his daughter. The
Brahma type is considered better than prajapatya, because in the
former, the groom's family goes out to seek a suitable bride for
their son.
Gandharva Marriage
Gandharva marriage is similar to love marriage. In this case, the
bride and the groom get married secretly, without the knowledge of
their parents. It is not considered a right kind of marriage, as
it is done without the consent of the parents. This marriage
reminds us of the love affair of the mythological characters -
Sakuntala and Dushyanta.
Asura Marriage
In the Asura marriage, the groom is not at all suitable for the
bride. Although the groom is not suitable for the bride, he
willingly gives as much wealth as he can afford, to the bride's
parents and relatives. Therefore, the system of marriage is more
or less like buying a product, which makes it undesirable in the
present time.
Rakshasa Marriage
According to Rakshasa marriage, the groom fights battles with the
bride's family, overcomes them, carries her away and then
persuades her to marry him. This is not considered as the
righteous way to woo a girl for marriage, because forcible methods
are used by the groom to tie the wedding knot.
Paishacha Marriage
Paishacha marriage is the eighth and last type of Hindu wedding.
It is considered as the inferior type of marriage, because the
girl's wish is not considered, even if she is not willing to marry
the person chosen for her. In fact, she is forced to marry.
Moreover, the bride's family is also not given anything in cash or
kind. Literally, the girl is seized against her wish. Men would
marry a woman, whom he had seduced while she was asleep,
intoxicated or insane. This kind of marriage was later on
prohibited.